How it works

From first look to first conversation

Everything important on HMA takes one or two taps.

1
Register with your date of birth
Your date of birth is mandatory. We calculate your age automatically — if you are under 18, no account or profile is created.
2
Verify your email and mobile
Confirm your email address, then verify your mobile number by one-time PIN. Verified members earn a visible badge.
3
Complete your profile
Add your personal, cultural, family, lifestyle and partner preference details. You control what is visible to whom.
4
Choose a monthly plan
Subscriptions are billed monthly in South African Rand. A subscription unlocks search, interests and messaging.
5
Express interest
See a profile you like? One tap sends an interest. The other member can accept or decline with one tap.
6
Message mutual connections
When an interest is accepted, private messaging opens between the two of you — and only the two of you.

Ready to begin?

Registration is free. A subscription is only needed once you want to connect with other members.